Tracker Pixel for Entry

​Writer-Director Parmet’s Convincing Debut: The Starling Girl

Cinema | July 20th, 2023

By Greg Carlson

gregcarlson1@gmail.com

Photo by Brian Lannin; courtesy of Bleecker Street

Laurel Parmet’s feature directorial debut “The Starling Girl” arrives on demand following a Sundance Film Festival premiere and a short theatrical window via Bleecker Street.

Finding fresh ways to depict coming-of-age stories involving matters of socially taboo topics is a tall order, but Parmet handles the story of a 17-year-old girl and her predatory youth minister with a strong sense of emotional authenticity.

Eliza Scanlen anchors the drama as Jem Starling, the eldest daughter in a close-knit family of Christian fundamentalists in rural Kentucky. Jem’s growth into adulthood is complicated by the intersection of her own intellectual curiosity and the expectations of her deeply religious family.

Many – if not most – of the individual conflicts cover familiar genre territory. Parmet shrewdly sticks to Jem’s point of view, a strategy that makes room for viewers to squirm at the predictable march toward wrongdoing without losing sympathy for the protagonist.

As Owen Taylor, the charismatic heir to church leadership, Lewis Pullman seizes the opportunity to illustrate the privileges of his position within the patriarchal structure of the community to which he has just returned from missionary work in Puerto Rico. That separation from the otherwise overwhelming insularity of Jem’s tightly monitored and controlled world represents just the kind of “exotic” fuel to fire her imagination.

Parmet has spoken about the ways in which “The Starling Girl” was partially inspired by her own teenage experience with an older man. Later, while doing research for another project, the filmmaker spent time with some women from a patriarchal church, turning her shock at their submissive beliefs into a thoughtful and considered examination of the commonalities she shared with them. The resulting sympathy for characters more typically depicted in the movies as backwards and out of touch with reality enriches the viewing experience.

Ultimately, Parmet makes clear that the gender-based control of Jem by her fellow parishioners corresponds to the way that society in general shames young women for autonomous self-expression – sexual and otherwise.

In addition to the terrific and convincing work by Scanlen and Pullman, the rest of the supporting cast members flesh out vivid characterizations no matter how small the role.

Away from the ever-building erotic tension and temptations of the relationship Jem develops with Owen, Parmet presents robust subplots that sharply explicate Jem’s internal struggles. Parentally-arranged “courtship” pairs the reluctant Jem with Owen’s little brother Ben (Austin Abrams). The contrast between the siblings could not be more obvious, both for Jem and the viewer.

Deliberate or not, Parmet makes clear distinctions between Jem’s interactions with the men around her and the more caustic and judgmental women who almost seem to take pleasure in draining the joy from Jem’s life (she is humiliated for wearing a shirt that isn’t opaque enough to fully conceal her bra and the choreography she introduces to her fellow praise dancers is deemed too “prideful”).

One of the filmmaker’s smart decisions is to fill out the history of Jem’s father Paul (Jimmi Simpson), whose depression and reliance on alcohol are exacerbated by the death of a friend with whom he played in a band years ago. Not surprisingly, it is the more realistic past of Paul and not the fantasy of Owen that provides Jem with a more grounded vision of a life outside the suffocating world she inhabits. 

Recently in:

By Bryce Vincent Haugen There are three Fargo Park Board seats up for election June 9. Park Board President Vicki Dawson and long-time member Dr. Joe Deutsch announced their reelection bids, but board member Aaron Hill is vacating…

By Michael M. Miller Rev. Salomon Joachim, pastor of Zion Lutheran Church, Beulah, North Dakota., delivered an address to the Western Conference of the Dakota District of the American Lutheran Church in 1939. His presentation was…

Thursday, April 23, 7 p.m.Fargodome, 1800 University Dr. N, FargoHeralded as "The Nicest Man in Stand-Up" by The Atlantic, Nate Bargatze is also one of the top-grossing comedians, breaking both streaming and attendance records. Now…

By Sabrina Hornung In the last week of March, we heard about an AI education droid visiting the White House as the first lady made a pitch to replace teachers with androids. In an interview with conservative commentator Benny…

By Ed RaymondWhy do women make up only 2% of humans on death row? In the 16th Century, when the Roman Catholic Pope refused to grant Henry VIII of England a divorce so he could marry the beautiful Anne Boleyn, he told the Pope and…

By Rick Gionrickgion@gmail.com Holiday wine shopping shouldn’t have to be complicated. But unfortunately it can cause unneeded anxiety due to an overabundance of choices. Don’t fret my friends, we once again have you covered…

By Rick Gion A brand new food event called the "ONE BITE Challenge" will launch in downtown Fargo on May 23. Rocky Schneider, executive director of the Downtown Community Partnership told us more. HPR: Hi Rocky. Thank you for…

By John ShowalterAs hip-hop started to make its way into the national spotlight in the late 1980s and early 1990s, it was largely split into two camps, “East Coast” and “West Coast”. Not content to be left out of a…

By Greg Carlson Veteran documentary filmmaker Marina Zenovich has chronicled a number of powerful men in entertainment, politics and popular culture, including Roman Polanski (twice), Richard Pryor, Robin Williams, Lance Armstrong…

By Sabrina Hornung Something wicked (and wonderful) this way comes to this year’s Plains Art Gala. With the theme being “Nightmare at the Museum,” the Plains Art Museum is partnering up with Drekker and Brewhalla as…

Saturday, January 31, 6:30-9 p.m.Transfiguration Fitness, 764 34th St. N., Unit P, FargoAn enchanting evening celebrating movement and creativity in a staff-student showcase. This is a family-friendly event showcasing pole, aerial…

By Annie Prafckeannieprafcke@gmail.com AUSTIN, Texas – As a Chinese-American, connecting to my culture through food is essential, and no dish brings me back to my mother’s kitchen quite like hotdish. Yes, you heard me right –…

By Sabrina Hornungsabrina@hpr1.comNew Jamestown Brewery Serves up Local FlavorThere’s something delicious brewing out here on the prairie and it just so happens to be the newest brewery west of the Red River and east of the…

By Ellie Liverani In November 2025, the FDA initiated the removal of the “black box” warning from Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT). The “black box” warning is a FAD safety warning for healthcare providers and patients…

January 31, 11 a.m. - 6 p.m.Viking Ship Park, 202 1st Ave. N., Moorhead2026 marks 10 years of frosty fun! Enjoy sauna sessions with Log the Sauna, try Snowga (yoga in the snow), take a guided snowshoe nature hike, listen to live…

By Chris M. StonerBryon Noem deserves to feel shame. Not for his bimbofication fetish. As a drag queen for nearly a quarter of a century, I whole-heartedly think people should do more exploration of their gender and sexual…